Better This Week - Desk Safari, Reverse Wishlist, How To Give a Great Compliment - Edition 28


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Be Better.

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Hi Reader,

You ever open the fridge, forget what you were looking for, then close it… only to realize 30 seconds later you were hungry, just not for whatever mystery Tupperware was judging you from the top shelf?

Yeah. Same energy I’ve brought to this week so far.

But that’s why this newsletter exists... to help all of us make slightly better choices in work, home, and life. No grand overhauls. Just a nudge in the right direction.

Let’s get into it.

—Brant

If you follow me on Linkedin, this was my most popular post last week:

There is a MASSIVE difference between "Valuable" and "Difficult to Obtain":

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Ready to get better this week?

Better @ Work

Because your best ideas are probably not hiding in your inbox.


The “Desk Safari” Strategy

If your workspace looks the same, sounds the same, and smells like yesterday’s lunch… your brain might be stuck on autopilot.

You don’t need a sabbatical to spark creativity.

Just a change of scenery.

How-To:
• Change locations for one meeting this week - outside, café, even just a different floor.
• Walk and talk - ditch the Zoom and make it a phone call on the move.
• Try “analog ideation” - bring a notebook and leave your screen behind.
• Block 20 minutes for unscheduled exploration somewhere inspiring.

🎯 Takeaway:
New surroundings = new solutions. Even a small shift can break your mental traffic jam.

🔥 Try This:
Take your toughest task of the week on a field trip. Somewhere different. No headphones. Just focus.

🧠 Reflection:
Where do you get your best ideas - and when’s the last time you went there on purpose?




Empathy Over Expectation: Dr. Sabba Quidwai

Sabba Quidwai reveals how one family moment transformed pain into purpose and taught her to lead with empathy over expectation.


Better @ Home

Because the life you want might be buried under the stuff you don’t.


The “Reverse Wishlist”

At home, clutter often speaks louder than clarity. We hold on to items for someday, what if, or just in case - until the space that’s supposed to restore us starts working against us.

It’s time for a quieter, smarter approach to home reset.

How-To:
• Walk through your space slowly, with a notepad or voice memo app.
• Instead of asking, “What should I get rid of?” ask: “If I moved tomorrow, what would I absolutely take with me?”
• Keep only what makes that list.
• Don’t start with your whole house - start with one drawer, one shelf, one corner.

🎯 Takeaway:
Decluttering isn’t about loss. It’s about loyalty. If it doesn’t earn its way into your next chapter, why let it stay in this one?

🔥 Try This:
Choose one area of your home this week -just one - and do a Reverse Wishlist walkthrough. No guilt. No pressure. Just clarity.

🧠 Reflection:
What are you holding onto that no longer deserves front-row status in your life?


Better @ Life

Because “nice job” is forgettable and you’re better than that.


How to Give a Great Compliment

We underestimate the power of a well-aimed compliment. Not the generic kind. The kind that hits like a hug in words.

A great compliment isn’t about flattery.
It’s about recognition.

Here’s how to give one that sticks:

✅ How-To:
Be Specific – Mention exactly what they did and why it mattered.
Spot the Effort – Praise the hustle, not just the result.
Make It Personal – Tie it to their values, energy, or growth.
Be Unexpected – A quick note, a voice memo, a sticky on their coffee cup.
Say It When It’s Not Required – It means more when it’s not tied to a review or agenda.

🎯 Takeaway:
A compliment costs nothing. But when delivered well, it’s a deposit in someone else’s self-worth account.

🔥 Try This:

Compliment someone today for something they probably think no one noticed.

🧠 Reflection:
What’s the most meaningful compliment you’ve ever received? What made it matter?


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